There are many ways to make things happen. Like trying to get yourself in better shape, or something along those lines. There are hundreds of workouts, diets, and things you can do to make yourself get into better shape. The one thing that you cannot find in a bottle is the drive to make you do those things. That part takes a bit of mental toughness on your part.
There are people in this world that are willing to work, and then there are those who are willing to let them. However, the people that don’t put in the work will try to put their burden of not putting in the work on you. Someone else’s lack of planning is not your burden, nor is it something that you should carry as your own. You set your own path, and you create your future. Everyone has the tools to tinker around in life to figure out what works for them. If they feel that what works is trying to take away from what you’ve earned, then it is on you to show them another way.
We all have the same number of hours in a day, and we all have issues that we need to deal with. Adding on someone else’s burdens is not one of them.
We all have the tools at our disposal to make the most of our life. Some of us lack the creativity to make those tools work for us in the best way for us. Take some time to focus on tinkering with the tools you have at your disposal, and less time dealing with other people’s burdens.